The fact that I’m pansexual sort of hit me in the face one day. A lot of media tends to focus on coming out and the experience of telling people and negates the living breathing, ever evolving, at times confusing, exciting and invigorating experience of learning to love whilst unlearning heterosexual norms. This is a seven part mini documentary series featuring the daily lives and dating experiences of people within the LGBTQIA community. Each part will seek to interview different people at different stages of their discovery from teens, youth to adults. We will seek to investigate the experience of finding love and dating on the African landscape and interview both those who have come out and those who haven’t. We will also find out how dating has changed in this post-covid world and the different experiences of dating online during lockdown. Whilst also seeking to showcase the different lived experiences of self discovery and romance and a focus on the differences between romantic orientations and sexual orientations. Each part will also feature short historical facts about how sexuality was viewed on the African landscape before colonisation. No one's story is the same but every story is worth telling. You can be a part of this project anonymously through sharing your written story for the book or through video. We will take all necessary steps in keeping the identities of those who take part safe during filming and only showing the faces and identities of those who wish to do so. Safety is always our first priority. You can also be a part of the project through: Sending us a video submission , Being part of a zoom interview, Being filmed live or Sending in a voice recording. Book submissions and interviews will be conducted through email or WhatsApp. Concessions will be made for those without access to the above platforms.